Building a beautiful relationship may sometimes require a lot of effort. Here you are stepping in to another person’ shoes, resolving differences using a lot of communication, and making sure that any free, tattered ends are secured in tight, well-knit knots. While the effort may be really worth it because you immensely love the other person, the process may leave you drained. It is natural. Any activity with a significant amount of work takes up your energy.
When you are drained out, you can not be yourself. When you can not be yourself, how can you bring yourself to the relationship? This is the time that you fill your own cuppa. Meditate, read, play, work, or simply sit with her, holding hands and watching a movie. Just give enough time till the cuppa is filled up again. And that is the time to again go back to each other and fill each other’s cuppa. This will make you bring even more creativity to your most desirable relationship because you are a renewed self now.
The purpose of a relationship is spiritual guidance, to make you return to your Self; to make you see you in your original light. It is in the process of relating to the other that you return to the source - and that is you.
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